tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4013521694510942639.post2361911221293717041..comments2023-09-05T04:26:00.252-07:00Comments on My Life As A Geek: My BlogGeekyfanboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06277495132632152696noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4013521694510942639.post-49084600129559656582013-05-17T10:21:33.328-07:002013-05-17T10:21:33.328-07:00I don't know who wrote this (but I have my gue...I don't know who wrote this (but I have my guess) I actually did talk to several of the friends in question before I blogged about it. Geekyfanboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06277495132632152696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4013521694510942639.post-84511742878985963082013-05-16T23:15:13.152-07:002013-05-16T23:15:13.152-07:00I think you missed the point. It's not that y...I think you missed the point. It's not that you blogged about it, it's that you blogged about it rather than talking to your friends directly. Instead they found out through a very public way that they hurt you which is not only upsetting but humiliating and unfair. Plus talking about someone wihtout naming them only mad people more confused. Heck people not at the party who read your blog were calling people who were to "get the gossip" and spreading rumors making it worse. Blog by all means, it's something you love, but know that if you don't at least talk to your friends about it FIRST it iwll upset some people. I mean think about it this way: it upset you that people were talking about it with each other rather than you right? How is that different from you posting abotu it online rather than talking to your friends about it?<br /><br />That being said I hadn't though about this in ages but I guess it does make sense some people would still be worried by it. We're all geeks and being or feeling at all like we were embarassed affects us more ya know?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4013521694510942639.post-41309833639787350492013-05-15T22:22:09.030-07:002013-05-15T22:22:09.030-07:00I love to read your blogs. It's fun to read ab...I love to read your blogs. It's fun to read about stuff you have done or are doing, and about how life is going for you. You've been remarkably discreet about things you talk about with family and friends; it's yet another sign of your integrity, and that integrity is one of the many reasons that I am proud to call you my friend. Keep blogging, since often you do things I probably won't have a chance to do or experience, and I can live vicariously through you,and even occasionally join you in your adventures! Blessings my sweet friend! xoxo JLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4013521694510942639.post-46704842043173604012013-05-15T15:46:20.324-07:002013-05-15T15:46:20.324-07:00Sorry to hear that Kenny, I remember reading the p...Sorry to hear that Kenny, I remember reading the post in question and I don't think there was anything wrong with it, you mentioned you were upset but you didn't name anyone or attack or put anyone down. If they still have issues with it I think it has more to do with issues they have with themselves then anything to do with you. I can't ever remember reading anything really negative (sometimes outset, disappoint or depressed but I think that is different) on your blog & I can't really see you posting anything like that especially not where it would concern a friend. You are one of the nicest, friendlyiest people I know & I'd hate to see you beat yourself up over someone else's issuesStevenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08029318414508201805noreply@blogger.com